BEST IN VEGAS

Things I’ve Learned About Dining Out—Luxury Edition

I didn’t grow up in a world of linen-tablecloth dinners or curated tasting menus. I grew up lower than middle-class, where a meal out felt like a holiday, and stretching every dollar was an art form. We’d read the prices before the dishes, take half the meal home for tomorrow, and celebrate the feeling of getting “two dinners for the price of one.” That upbringing taught resourcefulness, but over decades of dining at luxury resorts, fine restaurants, and business dinners around the globe, I realized the way we move in a restaurant speaks louder than the check we write.

This is not a lecture. It’s a guide from someone who’s lived both sides of the table—the guest and the host, the first-generation diner and the world-traveling connoisseur. Small shifts in behavior, phrasing, and posture can make your meal more elegant, your presence more respected, and your joy more palpable—without changing your values or frugality.

1. Turning seating into an experience, not a test
“I want the booth. No, the patio. Away from the kitchen. Too drafty.” I’ve been that guy, craving the perfect vantage for a meal I wanted to savor. But insisting repeatedly can read as insecurity or fussiness. Instead, I’ve learned to ask once, clearly: “A quiet corner would be wonderful; happy to wait if needed.” Staff and fellow guests respond to clarity, not indecision.

2. Scanning the menu like a stock ticker
I grew up pricing my choices before tasting them. But commenting aloud on every cost—“$18 for a burger?”—broadcasts worry instead of appetite. Now, I set my limit in advance and ask value-forward questions: “What’s the most popular dish under twenty dollars?” It preserves the budget and lets the joy of dining shine.

3. Choosing savings with elegance
Splitting entrees, stacking coupons, or negotiating kids’ meals can feel smart. But overdoing it signals that the table is high-maintenance. Today, I pick one thoughtful saving—maybe a coupon or a split dish—and leave the rest to the restaurant. Staff notice the difference between cleverness and compulsive haggling.

4. Respecting servers like collaborators
Over-apologizing or bossing staff comes from insecurity. I’ve learned the middle path: eye contact, first names if offered, one clear ask at a time. “Hi, Jordan. Could we start with waters and a few minutes with the menus?” Respect is universal, and it travels farther than fear or dominance.

5. Asking questions with grace
Double-checking every detail—water, bread, “freshness”—can read as distrust. Now I ask the essentials politely: “Are refills complimentary?” or “Just confirming the special includes a side?” This approach gets the same answers without raising defenses.

6. Simplifying modifications
Dietary needs are real. But “sauce on the side, no onions, extra pickles, sub salad for fries…” can overwhelm a kitchen. Lead with the non-negotiable, limit the rest, and express goodwill: “Onion allergy, otherwise perfect as listed.” It’s remembered.

7. Asking before bringing your own
We’ve all seen someone slip hot sauce, sugar packets, or even wine into the restaurant. I’ve done it in my youth. Now I discreetly ask: “May I have a to-go box?” or “Do you happen to have hot sauce?” Trusting the house is always classier than improvising.

8. Respecting table time
When a meal is rare, it’s tempting to linger endlessly. But ninety minutes after the check can frustrate staff. Instead, I pace the conversation with light orders—a coffee or dessert—or move the gathering to the bar. Everyone leaves satisfied.

9. Tipping like a professional traveler
Budget-conscious statements like, “I tip for great service, not because I have to,” can create tension. I now follow the simple rule: 18–20% for standard service, more for exceptional. The gesture acknowledges the ecosystem of the dining experience and keeps everyone comfortable.

10. Letting joy lead, not anxiety
“I’m not used to fancy places” or “I hope this isn’t too expensive” broadcasts nerves. I let enthusiasm lead: “This smells amazing” or “I’m thrilled we’re here together.” Presence and delight are free—and contagious.

Final thoughts:
Growing up frugal taught me how to stretch a dollar, but luxury dining taught me how to carry that story with elegance. Decide the budget, be kind, ask clearly, and leave the table better than you found it. From street tacos to Michelin stars, it’s the way you hold yourself that lingers—and that’s the real value on the menu.

Article by Christopher Dabek 

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Popular attractions

• Fountains of Bellagio: A world-famous water and light show in front of the Bellagio hotel.
• Fremont Street Experience: A vibrant downtown area with a large LED canopy, light shows, and live music.
• Red Rock Canyon National Conservation Area: A scenic area for hiking, rock climbing, and scenic drives just outside the city.
• Hoover Dam: An iconic engineering marvel located about 45 minutes from the Strip.
• Bellagio Conservatory & Botanical Gardens: A stunning display of elaborate, seasonal floral arrangements.
• Stratosphere Tower: Offers panoramic views of Las Vegas from the top of the Strat hotel.
• The Mob Museum: An interactive museum dedicated to the history of organized crime in America.
• High Roller: A large observation wheel on the LINQ Promenade that provides great views. 
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Shows and entertainment

• Cirque du Soleil: The "O" show at the Bellagio is a popular water-themed production.
• The Neon Museum: Features a collection of iconic Las Vegas signs in a unique outdoor setting.
• David Copperfield: A long-running magic show. 
• Las Vegas Wine Tours  the premier wine tasting experience in Sin City. https://lasvegaswinetours.com/
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Other landmarks

• The Las Vegas Strip: The main boulevard where many famous hotels, casinos, and attractions are located.
• Eiffel Tower Viewing Deck: A replica of the Eiffel Tower at Paris Las Vegas, with a viewing deck.
• The Venetian: A themed resort that includes canals and St. Mark's Square